​Most dating profiles ask you what you like. SweeLuv asks you who you are becoming.

​The most important field on your profile is the “My Commitment Goal” section. This is your chance to show other serious daters that you are focused on growth, not just surface-level swiping.

​What is a Commitment Goal?

​It is one thing you are currently working on to be a better partner or person. Your answer should be thoughtful and show that you are serious about growth and genuine connection.

​Good Example: “I am working on being a better listener by putting my phone away during conversations and asking follow-up questions.”

​Bad Example: “My goal is to watch more Netflix.” (This shows no effort or personal growth.)

​Why This Matters to Your Matches

​Serious daters are not just looking for someone fun; they are looking for someone who shares their values and is committed to improving themselves. When you share your goal, you give them a clear signal that you value growth and stability.

​This simple step ensures that the person who messages you is not just looking for a quick chat, they are looking for a genuine connection with a person who is as intentional as they are.